To Tie or Not to Tie: Style Advice for the Modern Professional Man
By Brandi Hearn, Men’s Personal Stylist
Let’s talk about the tie.
It’s one of the simplest ways to inject personality into your outfit—whether through a bold print, a refined knit, or a rich, solid tone. A well-chosen tie doesn’t just complete a look—it says something about you, your style, and your attention to detail.
But here’s the reality: dress codes have evolved. Formality is fluid. And the question men ask me most often is:
“Do I have to wear a tie anymore?”
The short answer: No.
The smart answer: It depends.
When a Tie Makes Sense
If you’re wearing a suit or sport coat, that’s your cue. A tie signals intention, reinforces polish, and shows that you’ve dressed with purpose. Situations include:
Weddings
Interviews
Client meetings
Formal dinners or networking events
You don’t have to feel stiff. I often style clients in hybrid looks—pairing a relaxed blazer (cotton or textured fabrics) with a smart tie. The result: elevated without being overdressed, confident without being conventional.
Key rule: Don’t wear a shirt and tie without a jacket. It feels unfinished. A tie belongs within a structured look—you can always remove your jacket later, but start the day fully styled.
When You Can Skip the Tie
In relaxed settings—business casual offices, laid-back weddings, or casual industry events—it’s perfectly acceptable to go tie-free.
But be thoughtful:
If a tie aligns with your personal style, it can still work in tie-optional settings.
Read the room:
What’s the tone of the event?
How are others dressing?
Do you want to blend in or subtly stand out?
A tie in a tie-optional environment can make a quiet statement—but only if it feels natural. Never look like you’re trying too hard.
How to Get It Right
When you’re unsure, ask yourself:
What’s the dress code (explicit or implied)?
Do I want to look more refined or more relaxed?
Will a tie add to the outfit or fight against it?
If you choose to wear one:
Stick with classic fabrics: silk, knit, wool
Opt for muted prints or solid textures
Avoid novelty or overly loud patterns—they cheapen the look
A good tie complements your outfit; it never competes with it.
Final Thought
Wearing a tie today is less about following rules and more about making a statement.
Done well: adds depth, refinement, and individuality
Done poorly: feels forced or out of place
Know your setting. Dress with purpose.
And if you’re going to wear a tie, wear it well, with confidence, balance, and intention.
Brandi is a personal stylist with over 10 years of experience helping men feel confident in their clothing. She offers tailored style solutions to solve your fashion issues, ensuring you look and feel great for any occasion.
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