What to Wear to a Wedding (Without Second-Guessing Yourself)

What to Wear to a Wedding (Without Second-Guessing Yourself)
A modern man’s guide to decoding the dress code — and showing up in style.

Weddings can be tricky to dress for. You’ve got a dress code, a time of day, a venue—and sometimes a vague invite that leaves you guessing.

The good news? Once you understand the vibe, the rest is simple.

Here’s your no-stress cheat sheet for what to wear to any wedding — so you look sharp, feel confident, and never show up underdressed.

1. Black Tie Optional

This is the most common evening wedding dress code — and one of the most misunderstood.

What it means: A tuxedo is welcome, but not required.

Your move:

  • If you have a well-tailored tux (or plan to rent one), wear it. You won’t be overdressed.

  • Prefer a suit? Go for a dark, tailored option in midnight blue or charcoal. Pair it with a crisp white shirt and a solid tie.

  • Finish with polished black shoes, a classic watch, and maybe a subtle pocket square for a refined edge.

Style Tip: The fit should feel intentional. Clean lines, no pooling at the ankles, and nothing overly trendy. Timeless always wins.

2. Cocktail Attire / Semi-Formal

This is your catch-all for most afternoon and early evening weddings. The tone is stylish but not overly formal.

For daytime weddings:

  • Lightweight suits in tan, light grey, or soft blue work well

  • Cotton or linen-blends keep you cool and polished

For evening weddings:

  • Stick to navy or charcoal

  • A blazer and chino combo can work—just make sure the tailoring is sharp and the shirt is tucked

Tie optional? Technically yes. But wearing one always elevates your look—and shows respect for the occasion.

Bonus Tip: Add a touch of personality through your shirt pattern or pocket square, but keep it tasteful. One standout element is plenty.

3. Beach or Destination Wedding

This is where most guys go too casual—or overdo the “resort” vibe.

Here’s the formula I recommend to clients:

  • Linen or cotton button-up shirt

  • Tailored trousers in light khaki, stone, or soft olive

  • Loafers or leather sandals (flip-flops are never appropriate)

  • Optional lightweight tie if the invite feels formal

  • A subtle print or fun pocket square adds personality without going overboard

Remember: Even if it’s outdoors or near the water, it’s still a wedding. Relaxed doesn’t mean sloppy.

Final Thought

Weddings are about celebration, connection—and showing up with intention.

When in doubt, dress one notch above what you think the invite calls for. You’ll never regret being the best-dressed guy in the room.

And if you need help pulling a look together for the next big event, I can help—here’s where to find me.


 

Brandi is a personal stylist with over 10 years of experience helping men feel confident in their clothing. She offers tailored style solutions to solve your fashion issues, ensuring you look and feel great for any occasion.

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