To Tie or Not to Tie: A Modern Guide for the Professional Man
To Tie or Not to Tie: A Modern Guide for the Professional Man
By Brandi Hearn, Men’s Personal Stylist
Let’s talk about the tie.
It’s one of the simplest ways to inject personality into your outfit—whether through a bold print, a refined knit, or a rich, solid tone. A well-chosen tie doesn’t just complete a look—it says something about you. About your style. About your attention to detail.
But here’s the reality:
Dress codes have evolved. Formality is fluid. And the question men ask me most often is this:
“Do I have to wear a tie anymore?”
The short answer? No.
The smart answer? It depends.
Let’s break it down.
When a Tie Makes Sense
If you’re putting on a suit or sport coat, that’s your cue. A tie here signals intention. It reinforces polish and shows that you’ve dressed with purpose. Situations like:
Weddings
Interviews
Client meetings
Formal dinners or networking events
In these settings, wearing a tie isn’t just appropriate—it’s expected. But that doesn’t mean it has to feel stiff.
I often style clients in hybrid looks—pairing a relaxed blazer (think cotton or textured fabrics) with a smart tie. It creates a look that’s elevated without being overdressed. It’s confident, not conventional. A detail that quietly sets you apart.
One rule I always stand by:
Don’t wear a shirt and tie without a jacket.
It feels unfinished—like something’s missing. A tie belongs within a structured look. You can always remove your jacket later, but you should start the day fully styled.
When You Can Skip the Tie
In more relaxed settings—think business casual offices, laid-back weddings, or casual industry events—it’s totally acceptable to go tie-free.
But here’s where you need to be thoughtful:
If you like wearing a tie and it aligns with your personal style, it can still work—as long as it doesn’t feel out of place.
Your job is to read the room:
What’s the tone of the event?
How are others likely dressing?
Do you want to blend in or stand out just a bit?
Wearing a tie in a tie-optional environment can make a subtle statement—but only if it feels natural. You never want to come off like you’re trying too hard.
How to Get It Right
When you're unsure, ask yourself:
What’s the dress code (explicit or implied)?
Do I want to look more refined—or more relaxed?
Will a tie add to the outfit—or fight against it?
If you choose to wear one, keep it tasteful:
Stick with classic fabrics: silk, knit, wool
Go for muted prints or solid textures
Avoid novelty or overly loud patterns—they cheapen the look
A good tie complements your outfit. It doesn’t compete with it.
Final Thought
Wearing a tie today is less about following rules—and more about making a statement.
Done well, it adds depth, refinement, and individuality to your outfit. Done poorly, it can feel forced or out of place.
So know your setting. Dress with purpose. And if you’re going to wear a tie, wear it well—with confidence, balance, and intention.
Need help choosing the right ties for your lifestyle? I’ve got you covered.
Brandi is a personal stylist with over 10 years of experience helping men feel confident in their clothing. She offers tailored style solutions to solve your fashion issues, ensuring you look and feel great for any occasion.
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